tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27277534.post114917045177960545..comments2023-10-24T03:48:17.089-04:00Comments on Does Every Woman Have an Eating Disorder?: Choicesdrstaceynyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11698974154886393241noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27277534.post-1169328228841600432007-01-20T16:23:00.000-05:002007-01-20T16:23:00.000-05:00allisonsky -I actually tried that finally after ma...allisonsky -<BR/><BR/>I actually tried that finally after maintaining the same unwelcome weight for 4 months. I decided to get some nice clothes for a job interview at my favorite classy store, Ann Taylor loft. Unfortunately, their size 14 is more like a size 12 - and nothing fit me. I was in despair! Where do heavier women buy work clothes? I mean, if the average size is 10-14, then where is everyone else shopping? The only place I can find nice work clothes in a 14 short that fit me is Old Navy. I haven't gone shopping since, and I really do need more clothes that fit me and make me feel comfortable and pretty. But this experience threw me into relapse, and I ended up binging and purging again. I still don't quite know what to do about it.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27277534.post-1149354666238890942006-06-03T13:11:00.000-04:002006-06-03T13:11:00.000-04:00Dear AS--a very wise friend! That's actually righ...Dear AS--a very wise friend! That's actually right on track--you get some cute new clothes and don't have to feel that stifling, uncomfortable feeling of squeezing into those too small.<BR/><BR/>Thanks, J, for adding me to your list. Good luck with your program.drstaceynyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11698974154886393241noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27277534.post-1149279566144357472006-06-02T16:19:00.000-04:002006-06-02T16:19:00.000-04:00Dr. Stacey~I'm so pleased that a friend referred m...Dr. Stacey~<BR/>I'm so pleased that a friend referred me to your website. I'm currently working on my Masters Degree in Clinical Counseling. My area of interest is in helping those who struggle with eating disorders. Your blog is now added to my favorites. <BR/><BR/>Thanks for your comments and for educating people on eating disorders. <BR/><BR/> ~JAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27277534.post-1149259642138372222006-06-02T10:47:00.000-04:002006-06-02T10:47:00.000-04:00I love you guys! Interestingly enough, I have a m...I love you guys! <BR/><BR/>Interestingly enough, I have a master's in Journalism and worked in television news for 2 years before heading over to radio, which pays NOTHING! Now I am doing something totally unrelated and unfulfilling, but whatever.<BR/><BR/>Yeah, It's like "What came first, the chicken or the egg?" I think the nitpicking the media does to the stars is some of what causes the eds in them. Granted, some people are just naturally sticks, but the media is brutal. They critisize you if your too thin or too fat. But we are constantly fed (ha ha) these images of "sickly" looking women. (I think they look good, but that's my messed up vision.) The media is basically stating that one needs to starve themselves to be successful and beautiful, especially in that biz.PTChttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05377666179155825301noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27277534.post-1149259024904915882006-06-02T10:37:00.000-04:002006-06-02T10:37:00.000-04:00Shaunta--thanks for the reply. A couple of questi...Shaunta--thanks for the reply. A couple of questions/thoughts: What's normal? Plenty of people are of "normal" weight, and they're struggling just as much with acceptance. Also, I've never really seen the "I'll love myself when I'm normal" thing work out. If anything, and again, I'm not a big fan of the word "normal," it works the other way around. So, could you be accepting of who/how you are right now AND still hope to lose weight, if that's what you want? No one is "too far gone" for acceptance. In fact, without acceptance, you're not going to GO anywhere. Just some food for thought. . . Thanks for linking up. : )drstaceynyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11698974154886393241noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27277534.post-1149258716373096142006-06-02T10:31:00.000-04:002006-06-02T10:31:00.000-04:00A media fast--what a great idea! I'd have so much ...A media fast--what a great idea! I'd have so much free time on my hands, I'd probably be able to. . . I don't know. . . write a book!<BR/><BR/>Anxious to hear from PTC as well--I'm sure you have so much to say!drstaceynyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11698974154886393241noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27277534.post-1149217644690862472006-06-01T23:07:00.000-04:002006-06-01T23:07:00.000-04:00I've thought about that before...how much easier t...I've thought about that before...how much easier to learn to accept my body, than to try to change it.<BR/><BR/>And then this little voice inside me says...sure, maybe 100 pounds ago. Maybe I could have learned to be satisfied with a 220, size 16 body. But who could be satisfied at 320 and a size 26?<BR/><BR/>So I start a round of...I'm not trying to be perfect, just normal. I'll be satisfied when I'm normal. I'll love myself more when I'm normal. When people don't do a double take at the fat girl. When my belly is smaller than my boobs. When I stop worrying about outgrowing Lane Bryant's biggest size.<BR/><BR/>I have this horrible feeling that I'm just too far gone for acceptance.<BR/><BR/>I'm working on that!<BR/><BR/>(Thanks for the great comment on my blog. I'm a writer, like you, and I'd love to talk to you about your book anytime. shaunta@pennywisejournal.com)Shauntahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02198281986223062678noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27277534.post-1149217386496597902006-06-01T23:03:00.000-04:002006-06-01T23:03:00.000-04:00I love that question--"which would be easier--to l...I love that question--"which would be easier--to lose weight or to work on your dissatisfaction?"<BR/><BR/>And, I guess one way to combat the media's messages is to take some sort of "media fast." Don't open the magazines with the "Who's Skinny and Who's Fat" type headlines, and turn off the TV for a week or so. Focus on things other than weigh....I was trying to encourage our friend Palmtreechick to write a post without the words "weight," "body," "exercise," etc., etc., in it. I'M STILL WAITING, PALMTREECHICK!!!Bloghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07516203764767040649noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27277534.post-1149207970352761782006-06-01T20:26:00.000-04:002006-06-01T20:26:00.000-04:00Of course it is--and it's great that you're thinki...Of course it is--and it's great that you're thinking about these things, too. . . .drstaceynyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11698974154886393241noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27277534.post-1149190165430576852006-06-01T15:29:00.000-04:002006-06-01T15:29:00.000-04:00Yeah, I kind of thought that's what happened. Gee...Yeah, I kind of thought that's what happened. Geez, I guess it's a good thing if I can get a psychologist thinking. Although, it might not be a good thing for me. ;)PTChttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05377666179155825301noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27277534.post-1149186086384594052006-06-01T14:21:00.000-04:002006-06-01T14:21:00.000-04:00See? You got me thinking!See? You got me thinking!drstaceynyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11698974154886393241noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27277534.post-1149184947732534022006-06-01T14:02:00.000-04:002006-06-01T14:02:00.000-04:00Interesting post, drstacey. :)Hmm, reminded me of...Interesting post, drstacey. :)Hmm, reminded me of what someone posted on my blog (to which there is a response). ha ha!PTChttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05377666179155825301noreply@blogger.com