tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27277534.post114976624844706450..comments2023-10-24T03:48:17.089-04:00Comments on Does Every Woman Have an Eating Disorder?: No Really, Do I?drstaceynyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11698974154886393241noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27277534.post-14759211644926784012007-03-21T20:06:00.000-04:002007-03-21T20:06:00.000-04:00You speak volumes of wisdom. Yet an entire genera...You speak volumes of wisdom. Yet an entire generation of men has been trained to respond to this question with diplomacy, compliments and affection, not truth - and it's with good reason. Because despite your wisdom, there are still millions of women who will get furious if the answer is anything other than an immediate "No."<BR/><BR/>And I suspect if I sat a man down and told him, a few months into our relationship, that when I ask that question I want unabashed honesty, not smoke blown up my ass, his head would simply explode.<BR/><BR/>So what next?Barmaid Bloghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06132660779752248650noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27277534.post-1149823005992140532006-06-08T23:16:00.000-04:002006-06-08T23:16:00.000-04:00PTC--you, too hard on yourself? Get out of here! ...PTC--you, too hard on yourself? Get out of here! ; )<BR/><BR/>Haley--thanks! And major points for you for giving up this talk (the book I referenced is a really quick read and helps you deal with others who bring up weight-y conversations). Rock on, feminist mom!drstaceynyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11698974154886393241noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27277534.post-1149778793478103442006-06-08T10:59:00.000-04:002006-06-08T10:59:00.000-04:00Great post, Doc. I think everywomanshouldreadthisp...Great post, Doc. I think everywomanshouldreadthispost! ;)<BR/>I recently decided altogether to stop asking others if I look "fat" or if I look like I've lost weight. I stopped because such questions set a bad example for Joey and because they suggest to others that such things matter--and I want to be an example to other women, as well as to my child. It's the least I can do as a mother and as a feminist.Bloghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07516203764767040649noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27277534.post-1149775659510745162006-06-08T10:07:00.000-04:002006-06-08T10:07:00.000-04:00That's an interesting post. I, personally, want t...That's an interesting post. I, personally, want to hear "yes, you do look fat in that" because it's what I believe and it reassures me that I am not the only one seeing it.<BR/><BR/>It's sort of the same thing, for me atleast, with sports. I'd always hate to hear that I had such a "great game" when I thought I stunk up the joint. Granted,I think I tend to be too hard on myself and am never satisfied or "good enough" for ME. There is, however, a fine line between being too hard on yourself and being able to recognized whether or not you really did stink, or am fat. <BR/><BR/>Hopefully that made sense.PTChttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05377666179155825301noreply@blogger.com